So the Barack Obama Inauguration Committee is running a contest that will give 10 people a chance to attend the event all expenses paid. The catch? You have to tell them what President-Elect (god I love writing that) Barack Obama’s inauguration means to you.
This is what I sent in (I re-purposed some stuff from an earlier election day post):
The inauguration of Barack Obama means many things to me: Hope for a better economy, the end of the Iraq war and the restoration of America’s reputation abroad among the most important. But it also means something far more personal to me.
Barack Obama’s inauguration is for the nine year old me. You see, when I was nine years old I first discovered racism.
I am a child of a tri-racial mixed family. Our family was unusual even by Washington D.C. standards: two white children, one black child, 4 Vietnamese children and two white parents. I knew we were different in some ways but when you are nine years old our difference was my normality. My parents fiercely protected that innocence and made sure we lived and went to schools in a community that celebrated, embraced and more often than not looked like our family.
Then we went to my grandfather’s funeral in rural North Carolina in 1982 when I was nine years old.
I would like to pause in this story to acknowledge what Obama’s speech on race and America back in March of 2008. When he said, “I can no more disown him than I can disown the black community. I can no more disown him than I can my white grandmother – a woman who helped raise me, a woman who sacrificed again and again for me, a woman who loves me as much as she loves anything in this world, but a woman who once confessed her fear of black men who passed by her on the street, and who on more than one occasion has uttered racial or ethnic stereotypes that made me cringe,” it resonated with me. It resonated because it took me back to that trip to rural North Carolina in 1982.
In 1982 my family at the time consisted of my oldest sister Wendy and I who are white, my oldest brother Greg who is African-American and my Vietnamese-American siblings Dzung and Si.
A lot changed for me on that trip. For the first time I learned we were truly different. I will never forget the stares and whispers at the gas stations as our happy band poured out to go to the bathroom. The incredulous looks and gasps of surprise when we stopped to eat. But for the most part people were kind and understanding and sympathetic to my parents plight of dealing with 5 young kids.
And then we went to eat in a diner off the interstate somewhere in the mountains of North Carolina. To this day I can remember how the entire place got quiet after we walked in. And then many turned around and simply stared at us while we ate. I remember feeling uncomfortable, but mainly because my parents were acting so weird. For the first time in ages us kids ate our food in silence, being stared at like exotic animals in the zoo.
I learned we were different that day. I learned the race mattered to alot of people. So much so that it permanently scarred my African-American brother and affected our family in ways that reverberate today.
So I never thought I would see the moment that I could fill out a ballot for a black man with a funny name for President. As I filled in the little oval next to Barack Obama’s name I thought to myself – “this is for those folks in the diner all those years ago that made my family feel so uncomfortable and taught a none year old all about racism without ever saying a word”.
That is what Barack Obama’s inauguration means to me.
Here is a picture of my family at my sister’s wedding. As you can see, the folks in the diner didn’t win.
